This is just a reminder to remember who the hell you are. I feel that it is very important, especially for women, to remember their self-worth. Never let anyone, especially a wack dude, disrespect you in any way. That person may have a lot of good qualities, but if they continue to say or do something that bothers you (and they are aware of this) then they have no respect for you whatsoever. Stop wasting your time and breath on this person.
Also, don’t waste time on a dude who puts in little to no effort. You deserve WAY more than what he is offering you. If a guy is not going hard for you during the courting phase, then he ain’t the one for you. I’ve noticed that my generation of men (or guys I should say) expect the women to chase after them. I will not/will not chase after no dude. It’s one thing for a man to be nervous or shy around a woman. I’m not talking about those men. I’m talking about the guys who expect you to put yourself on a silver platter in the very beginning. Those who expect you to go hard for them when they haven’t done (S)ugar (H)oney (I)ce (T)ea for you. Beware of those! Do not drop your standards and do not give in to them. If they really want to be with you, then they will try to meet you where you are and understand the importance of wooing you. Understand that YOU are the prize, not him. He should be jumping through hoops to be with you, not the other way around.
So, until a man meets my standards … it’s a big, THANK U, NEXT! (Ariana Grande voice)
In terms of others, those who try to belittle you, understand that there is something wrong with them internally. They are not happy with themselves. Anyone who tries to bring you down and dim your light has a lot of insecurities that need to be dealt with. Understand that this is not your problem, so do not make it your problem.
Continue to love yourself, live your life, and secure your bag $$$
The Fashtorious L.A.C.
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